use the force mushy!

Don't get mad at people for not changing the way that you've wanted, when you didn't change that way that you've wanted.

You get more when you are giving more but not by asking for more.

So, making a list of what you want in a life partner when you couldn't care less perfecting yourself to become one is an act of self-centered person.

So be one and you'll get one.

simple math.