While we are free to choose our actions, we are not free to choose the consequences of our actions

have ever met someone who always stories about his misfortune? for the first few stories i would prolly be sorry for him, but once the same story has been going around your circle of friends and more and more stories of misfortune has been heard, u must be thinking, apasal la mamat ni kisah hidup pathetic gle... It seem like he has been telling the stories to everyone to gain sympathies so that everyone would feel sorry for him and would lend him a helping hand. i'm not that cold hearted person that doesn't seem to care, but as i can remember vividly in one of ceramah agama on tv, the whole world doesnt need to know about bad things that happens in your life, because this will make us weak at handling it. furthermore, Allah swt is not cruel to fall a misfortune to his creation without any reason. Andddd Allah swt wouldn't help someone who wouldn't help himself. So, if there is a continues of misfortune fell upon you, would you blame the god???

"We only send the messengers to give Glad Tidings and to give warnings: But the unbelievers dispute with vain argument, in order therewith to weaken the truth, and they treat My Signs as a jest, as also the fact that they are warned!" 018.056